Kabalis wrote:
you guys are saying that hes like a plague that should be avoided? I know him personally and hes a nice guy, hes helped me countless times when I needed him and from what Ive gathered here, you guys all sound like the kind of guys to avoid. with attitudes like that I wouldn't want to do anything with you in game. your all bitter and I dont want to have anything to do with a bitter player. you guys all fail to realize that even if he did mean to steal it, that every single NM and item dropped can be repeated countless times. let the past go and all I'm asking is to realize that it's not fair to go on the biggest FFXI site and intentionally create a flaming thread when you can still get the item. you guys kicked him out of your LS, leave it be there. just saying with respect that your all complaining over something small and destroying the reputation of a guy that doesn't deserve it . common guys show a little respect. is that too much to ask?
I know I'm late to the party, but when the op was posted, I added him to my /blist next chance I could and moved on. Yet after your responses and defense of him, I decided to post my thoughts. The reason everyone says to avoid him like the plague is because people who exhibit this kind of behavior will often times do it again.
Yes, every single item can be dropped again, but lets say next time he decides to "accidentally" lot something, he's in dynamis and it's someone's rdm hat who's been waiting 6 months for it to drop. Or perhaps he's helping you again for something you needed his help on, and instead of saying congrats to you when your item drops, he lots it instead cause he thinks he can use it better than you. This is why people post warnings like this, when someone pulls a douchebag move, they get that rep, and noone will help them anymore.
They will most likely find a new ls, explain how it was a huge accident and he mistakenly turned on quartermaster or lag did it, or some other lame excuse. He'll eventually get in a new ls and probably play by the rules for a few months, till there is an item in the treasure pool he really really wants, and then accidentally do it again. The good thing is, he's on my blist, so he wont be in any of my ls's and therefore wont be ******** any of my friends, my members or me out of any drops.
Btw, feel free to /blist me if you don't want to associate with players with attitudes like my own. Thieves in real life get jail time, thieves in ffxi get a bad rep, lose friends and deserve to have their name dragged thru the mud. I'm sure if it was your item that was taken, you'd be thinking completely differently.
The player base would be in a much better place if people like this thought about it before deciding to ninja lot an item, that, like you said, will drop again. The greed for the one item ultimately leads them to less items because noone will help them anymore. Think about all the other items and potential items you will be losing out on by destroying your rep, not to mention the fact that stuff like this will follow you across servers.