Wow..... hmmmm how to say this. People shouldnt be willing to lend anything they dont want to loose, and on the same not if your a trust worthy player you wouldnt be willing to return what was stolen off of you to pay for what you borrowed.
Funny, I lent out a pair of mountain gaiters to someone a couple months ago. Now for the life of me I can't remember who it was. So if you have them I could really use them back.