I really didn't have a goal when I first started playing...seriously. I just wanted to level because I...well, like leveling. I didn't have in mind any particular job or rank or anything. I just wanted to keep going on. Also, at the beginning, I really wanted to know the game as best I could, get to a high-level, and show the newbies the basics of the game and help them get started playing. Well, I've since done just that, and I've met some of my best online friends that way. ^^
Well, when I hit 18 with WAR and unlocked my subjob, someone asked me what job I'd have as a main. I asked my PLD mentor at the time which job did the best damage and was told Ranger. I was like "Ok, I'll be a RNG/NIN then!" Somewhere along the way, I got fed up with tanking as a WAR, and noticing that everyone in Valkurm complained about not having a WHM, I changed to a WHM main. I got it to 38 before the invites started slowing down, and I once again got annoyed at my job mainly because...my WHM had crappy Defense and if I ever met an DC or higher, I was a dead Mithra...and WHM's sub-par farming skills.
So, going back to my original goal, I asked around my LS at the time on how expensive RNG/NIN would be. When I was told that I could expect in the later levels to be spending 3-5 stacks of arrows just to get one level...my RNG/NIN dream died that day. No way was I spending gil just to throw it at the mob. So starting from there, I wanted to be a job that 1.) could do great farming, 2.) not be a tank or mage, and 3.) could take a hit or two without worrying about dying. Fortunately, just before I quit WHM, I'd unlocked DRG and had wanted to give it a try.
As for my goals now...well, full DRG Relic would be nice...LOL. As if. As for attainable ones, I think I'll settle for full DRG AF and then strut my stuff around Lower Jeuno for a while.
Oh, and Theo...isn't it strange how you, who originally wanted to be a DRG/SAM, eventually became a RNG/NIN and me, who originally wanted to be a RNG/NIN, eventually became a DRG? LOL.