I managed to convince my GF to try the game out :)
Many thanks to eckko for providing me with some uber cesti+1 for my lvl 1 mnk that i'm leveling with her.
By the end of the night she was upgrading her spells on her own and setting up macros and had a pretty good understanding of how hate works.
And to vinny if you read this she tried to /bow for the buffs you gave but couldn't target you before you ran away so thanks!
The highlights of our night include me saying "lets take this shrapnel" and a gob landing Dia on her with 10HP left ; ;
So if you see a lvl 5 Hume Female BLM running around Gustaberg named talulah give a /wave