I was in a party with a really great WHM today, and he needs to be on here:
Starshadow.
The party was 51-53, fighting Robber Crabs in the Kuftal Tunnel. For those of us that have been there, well, that can be very long, very slow leveling, especially in parties light on melee damage (which this one was).
There were a few patience-trying times; at the very start of the pt our leader left ten seconds out of the gates of Jeuno, and it took an hour to find replacements for him and the BLM that left soon after;
Fought Bark Spiders too early, resulting in the deaths of the PLD and the WAR;
Had a member that asked for an escort from the crystal, so Starshadow tele'd out, only to have the guy run back to the Kuftal without him ><.
But throughout, Starshadow kept a really good attitude. I think of all the reasons for a player to be here, a good attitude is the thing I'll add them quickest for, because it's so much more common to run into people who are critical, impatient and rude -- especially at the higher levels.
Starshadow was always polite, nice to other players, tolerant of simple mistakes, and patient. He made that slow party a pleasure, and I'd recommend him any day.